Culture and Connection

How can a person live "meaningfully well"

2012-01-05T13:06:00.001-08:00

In this article by Umair Haque that was posted on the Harvard Business Review blog he explores what it would take for one to live meaningfully well. He offers 3 lessons to people in their 20's -- but they are obviously worth reading regardless of your age or station in life.

Cultivate, create & forgive.

Marring the right/wrong person...

2012-01-05T12:41:00.001-08:00

I recently came across this article by Timothy Keller on the Relevant website regarding why Americans "never marry the right person." The gist of this piece is that we misunderstand compatibility.

Whether you are married or not what Keller has to say is worth your time.

Don't over think decision making...

2012-01-05T08:58:00.000-08:00

I am speaking to myself if no one else. I have a major tendency to over think decisions -- even the seemingly unimportant ones.

I am almost certain i have posted this article here before but regardless it is certainly worth reposting. This piece by Jocelyn Glei on 99% website is terrific and includes 5 tips in regards to daily decision making.

An update from Bono...

2011-12-01T08:46:00.000-08:00

Recently Bono submitted this piece to the NYT on the current status of the AIDS epidemic and the effort to eliminate it. He saved the last paragraph to encourage America to keep its act together.

Worth reading.

A peak at Leonardo da Vinci's daily tasks...

2011-11-30T13:15:00.000-08:00

Who wouldn't want to look at the to-do list of someone like da Vinci? In this article on the NPR website we get to look inside his personal notebook and read what he pondered on a daily basis.

The info shared here is just to whet your appetite for an upcoming book on the same subject matter by Toby Lester.

Can forgiveness impact your status?

2011-11-30T13:11:00.001-08:00

According to Teresa Norton's post on the Harvard Business Review blog it does. This is a thought-provoking and insightful piece on how forgiveness affects a person's estimation of self-worth.

Creative animated video to inspire runners

2011-11-28T07:58:00.000-08:00

Saw this on the Adventure Journal blog which i enjoy very much. Mostly because they post things like this that inspire me to be outdoors.

Creative & compelling video.

Is there a conspiracy behind conspiracy theories?

2011-11-28T07:53:00.000-08:00

Seth Godin posted an very interesting entry on his blog regarding "conspiracy theories" and how they come about and why the average person embraces them.

Here is a line from the article that intrigued me greatly: "Doubt is something people often want to buy, particularly if it gives them comfort."

Is criticism ever really constructive?

2011-11-21T12:03:00.000-08:00

In this article by Tony Schwartz on the Harvard Business Review blog he discusses whether criticism is ever really constructive. He discusses how giving feedback can be difficult to deliver not just for the person receiving it but for the person giving it as well.

This is a very helpful piece to read and reflect on regardless of the role you play in your organization bc the reality is we all find ourselves in the position of giving feedback as some point.

a sister's eulogy...

2011-10-31T08:26:00.001-07:00

This piece written by Mona Simpson, Steve Jobs' sister, has no doubt made its rounds all over the world wide web -- but its worth posting even if for the millionth time.

It is very moving & beautiful.

Mindset After Failure is Profound...

2011-10-17T06:28:00.000-07:00

In this article by Jonah Lehrer on Wired.com he discusses the profound importance of a person's mindset after failing at a task. Even more importantly for me, as a father, he discusses the profound impact of our words/instructions/comments to children after failing or succeeding at a task.

Intuitive Decision Making...

2011-10-11T12:55:00.001-07:00

Author Donald Miller wrote this concise yet profound blog entry regarding the validity of making decisions (quick ones at that) using intuition alone.

I found it similar to Malcolm Gladwell's Blink which is entire book dedicated to the topic. And of course anything by Gladwell is top-notch.

I recommend reading both the article and Blink.

Ben Franklin - master of social skills...

2011-10-11T12:50:00.000-07:00

In this enlightening piece by David McRaney of You Are Not So Smart.com he discusses the myths & truths behind why we like or dislike certain people. It was very eye-opening for me and certainly caused me to stop and think. He uses Ben Franklin as the case study but certainly dives into deep research and study on the topic.

This article is quite lengthy but worth the read.

Hydration during exercise - a new theory

2011-09-27T11:24:00.000-07:00

Well actually -- its not so much a new theory as it is a contradiction to what we have been told (a better word is probably "sold") for a long time. When it comes to sports drinks and/or water are you over-hydrating?

This article might lead you to believe that you are. It is very interesting to say the least. And i must say the point Dr. James Winger of Loyola University Medical Center makes seems very logical.

Competition - good or bad motivator?

2011-09-26T06:42:00.001-07:00

In this article by Seth Godin he makes a strong point about the advantage or disadvantage of using competition as a motivator. I found this piece to be very profound on several different levels and areas in my life.

Short & sweet as usual by Godin.

Encounters with Steve Jobs...

2011-08-26T09:47:00.001-07:00

I have not had any...but all these people have and they shared a bit about it.

They are certainly compelling stories. Stories that cause me to ponder -- what is it about someone that has such an impact on others. Is there such a thing as "it?" A quality that you are born with. You have "it" and others don't. And this makes you special -- or at least more special.

Either way this is a compelling read.

Good questions...

2011-08-26T09:30:00.000-07:00

I have found that pondering profound questions is a very good thing.

In this article on the Harvard Business Review they reflect on several potentially life altering questions that Steve Jobs posed in his 2005 Commencement address.

Profound indeed.

Small Wins vs Big Wins -- which wins?

2011-08-09T10:44:00.000-07:00

This blog entry by Dan Pink is an interview with author & Harvard Business School Professor Teresa Amabile about her latest work "The Progress Principle."

I personally have not read the book yet -- however the interview alone shed some very profound light on the topic of progress in the workplace particularly concerning the culture of the workplace and supervisor/employee relationships.

This entry is worth the read alone -- and i imagine the book is a must read.

While i am at it i recommend checking out Dan Pink's "stuff." He is a good source of info on Twitter and the 2 books he advertises on his blog are very enlightening as well.

Beginner Training for a Triathlon

2011-08-04T08:37:00.000-07:00

Rachel Sturtz of Women's Health posted this article on Active.com regarding training for a triathlon. There are some very solid training/technique tips here regardless of your experience level. However, the info is more geared for the beginner.

Wanna be faster...

2011-08-04T08:29:00.000-07:00

Active.com posted this piece that includes 8 different articles on how to improve times throughout your triathlon disciplines: swimming, cycling, running & transitions. The articles cover everything from training exercises, to equipment to the mental game.

A very solid piece that should offer numerous ways to improve.

Improve your running mechanics...

2011-08-03T13:59:00.000-07:00

This article posted by Active.com can be very technical at times but still provides good reminders and insight on proper running mechanics. I recommend following the links to other articles and particularly a couple of the videos posted here as well.

The videos really helped to provide visual understanding to what i had been reading in the article.

Monkey see - Monkey do

2011-08-02T08:03:00.000-07:00

Ever reach for your phone in your pocket because you thought it was vibrating only to find that it was not. Yep - you fell victim to "phantom vibration syndrome." No this is not a scientific term yet but i imagine as we become more & more dependent on our electronic gadgets and more & more in tune with them this will become a legitimate scientific term.

Martin Lindstrom wrote this article for Fast Company about this very idea. I personally have fallen victim to this numerous times and found this piece very intriguing.

What's all this "debt ceiling" talk about...

2011-08-01T14:09:00.000-07:00

In a rare move i am actually going to post a "political" article -- well its truly more of a financial article. Lately there has been constant chatter on news channels & shows regarding the nation's "debt ceiling" and the dire need to raise it.

I ignored it as long as i could until i came across this very simple & practical article by the New York Times giving a quick Q & A to fill me in without having to sort thru all the partisan rhetoric (thankfully!).

Busy is not all its cracked up to be...

2011-08-01T14:06:00.000-07:00

In this article by Chris Savage her discusses some of the most profound & simple advice he has ever received: "...Stop being so bloody busy."

This piece is beneficial for anyone that is tempted to add "just one more thing" to their schedule.

Get Started Running...

2011-07-29T13:14:00.001-07:00

In this article by Olympian Kara Goucher in Runners World are some terrific running tips for beginner runners or maybe even the experienced runner that needs to relearn how to appreciate and accomplish a running goal.

These tips are simple & basic -- but profound & practical.

5 practical race tips for Triathletes

2011-07-05T08:27:00.000-07:00

This article on Active.com by Amanda McCracken gives 5 very practical tips on easily overlooked "things" for Race Day. These are useful and i would encourage any racer to read thru them regardless of their experience.

Myths about Introverts...

2011-06-27T07:51:00.000-07:00

Being an introvert i certainly appreciate this article by Carl King on his blog. In it he discusses 10 common myths regarding introverts.

This is recommended reading for Introverts & Extroverts alike.

To decide or not to decide...

2011-06-22T12:58:00.000-07:00

Jocelyn Glei from 99% wrote this article on the tendencies that play into our decision making and how we routinely over think them.

This piece if very profound and informative. She gives 5 very thought-provoking points and discusses things from 2 types of solutions to 3 types of intuition.

I found this article to be very helpful.

(Don't overlook the TED talk link by Dan Gilbert. It too is fascinating and practical.)

Don't limit your creativity - embrace uncertainty

2011-06-22T12:38:00.000-07:00

In this article from the site 99% they use the "space pen" example as a way to show that we can too often limit our creativity by making our objectives and goals too narrow.

Instead they set the challenge of embracing ambiguity when working on projects. A good challenge indeed.

Training for an Olympic Distance Triathlon

2011-06-20T11:06:00.001-07:00

I just came across this helpful bit of info by Mike Ricci at Active.com. He focuses mostly on the run portion of the training regime and i found it helpful. Particularly how he breaks down the different types of run training that should be essential in your program.

Is "Follow Your Passion" bad advice?

2011-06-14T06:43:00.000-07:00

In this article by David Brooks of Study Hacks the familiar mantra of "follow your passion" regarding career advice is debunked. Brooks is not against being passionate about your work or even enjoying what you do -- but he does challenge the typical advice of discover your passion first and then find a job that compliments it.

I like this article and its fresh way of looking at this necessary part of every person's life.

Tell your imagination to go take a flying leap...

2011-06-09T08:37:00.000-07:00

And keep doing it. This article by Mark Shead from the site Productivity 501 is stellar if you are needing some breakthroughs in problem solving or just being challenged to think differently.

Shead begins by discussing and showing why Einstein was able to come up with ideas that his contemporaries could not even begin to imagine (literally). Its an interesting read and even provides some tasks/challenges to help you grow your thinking.

One of my favorite quotes is by Einstein: "No problem will ever be solved by the same thinking that created it." Little did i know i would ever get read about what was potentially the source/reason behind that quote.

An added bonus: you get to view a sweet pic of Einstein in this article.

Idea Execution...

2011-05-27T13:22:00.001-07:00

An organization that i highly recommend looking into is 99%. They offer many resources on all things ideas, design, workplace effectiveness, etc. This article from their website is a recap of things they discussed & learned at their annual conference.

There is some very insightful material in here. Again, a terrific group to follow and learn from.

Swim Tips from Dave Scott

2011-05-14T11:02:00.001-07:00

6 Time Ironman Champion Dave Scott gives 3 helpful tips for swim practice. This is done via video which certainly makes it more effective for understanding the proper mechanics of the drills.

Triathlon: Proper push off in the pool

2011-05-14T10:51:00.001-07:00

This is an informative article on the proper push off in the pool portion of a triathlon. Any advantage in the pool is worthwhile. Having a video accompany it is even more helpful.

The dangerous effects of sitting...

2011-05-14T10:44:00.000-07:00

Recently i have read or heard some startling new findings on the dangerous effects of sitting on health. It is surprising that after all these years research is now starting to show that "sitting all day" can lead to obesity and cardivascular issues.

Check out this very well designed article from Mashable on the deadly habit of sitting.

Apple doesn't fall far from the Steve...

2011-05-11T13:09:00.000-07:00

With the recent news that Apple is now the World's most powerful brand this article by Brian X Chen of Wired was great timing. In this piece he is merely retelling insights from the original article posted in Fortune -- but regardless its an eye-opener about what goes on behind the scenes with top decision makers.

Break through the Training Plateau

2011-04-27T12:54:00.000-07:00

Terry Laughlin of Total Immersion provides some good insight on how to break through plateaus in training regardless of the sport/event. This article identifies 3 types of people once a plateau is reached. Which one are you?

Swimming is excellent for recovery...

2011-04-27T12:36:00.000-07:00

Not only swimming an excellent recovery method and something triathletes are already scheduling, but research shows that it may be "the best" recovery method. This article by Matt Fitzgerald of Triathlete.com gives solid insight & proof via research.

Nutrition Info for Sprint/Olympic Tri's

2011-04-27T12:29:00.000-07:00

The info given in this article on Active.com is very helpful as it relates to nutrition before & during the event. I was surprised at some of the advice given here by Rich Strauss of Endurance Nation.

Injury Prevention Tips for Endurance Training

2011-04-27T12:17:00.000-07:00

This article on Active.com written by Vic Brown of VeloNews provides 10 solid tips to avoid injuries.

Improve Bike Splits...

2011-04-27T12:10:00.000-07:00

This article has 3 solid tips on being faster on the bike portion of a Triathlon Race.

Is your brain due for an upgrade?

2011-03-29T08:10:00.000-07:00

The blog Productivity 501 had this very intriguing article on ways to upgrade your brain. I will tell you that this article by Mark Shead is lengthy and if you want to jump to the sections i thought were most enlightening skip down to the "Seek Out New Experiences" section and the "Think" section. These are very practical and dare i say enjoyable. Don't just upgrade & update your favorite technology tools -- upgrade your brain as well. Its an incredibly powerful tool that you dare not waste.

50 books every child should read...

2011-03-25T07:30:00.001-07:00

Whether you are a parent or not this article from The Independent should spark interest with you...especially if you are a reader. The source, Education Secretary, Michael Gove, says that children should read a book a week (11 yr olds that is). I find that goal a bit audacious for this day & time, but i do applaud the challenge.

What i found interesting were the books on the list. Take a look for yourself and see how many you have read in your lifetime. Then consider whether or not you would have your kids read them. Admittedly i did not recognize many of the titles...it could be because this is a British website. Just a guess.

Creative Office Spaces @ Skype

2011-03-25T07:16:00.000-07:00

Office Snapshots recently revealed the new digs for Skype's Palo Alto office. Being the Culture Directore here at work i am always intrigued and learning from new office spaces. I highly recommend taking a look at these pics.

(When you're Skype you can afford an office space like this)

Simplify your life...

2011-03-25T07:11:00.000-07:00

I came across this article on the Becoming Minimalist blog and i really appreciated the challening yet practical advice on how to "live simply." In this piece the author, Faith Janes, discusses how acquiring a simplistic lifestyle does not come from one decision but from a group of decisions leading to one another.

Benjamin Franklin's daily schedule...

2011-03-21T08:09:00.001-07:00

Here is an intriguing yet simple look at Benjamin Franklin's daily schedule posted by the blog SwissMiss. I certainly appreciate the simplicity that he took on daily tasks yet started & ended his day with a "big picture" question. Obviously very wise.

"Pick yourself" says Godin

2011-03-21T07:31:00.000-07:00

No suprises here -- Godin has a revolutionary thought on the decision between waiting to be picked or picking yourself. Solid stuff as usual.

Religion & Politics...

2011-03-14T12:10:00.000-07:00

These are 2 things i routinely avoid posting here - however this article was quite thought provoking. Phil Zuckerman from the Huffington Post takes the position that "white evangelicals" are actually the least likely group to support politicians or policies that reflect the actual teachings of Jesus.

It is quite a stinging criticism.

On the road with Dick Vitale

2011-03-06T19:35:00.000-08:00

Because i am a huge sports fan -- mostly college sports -- including college basketball this article was very intriguing to me. I personally love & admire Dick Vitale. He has such a contagious joy and optimism for life. A true icon and role-model regardless of your passion for basketball.

Does difficult decision = important decision?

2011-03-06T18:31:00.000-08:00

This article by Whitson Gordon of LifeHacker.com rang true for me becuase i am someone that is suceptible to "paralysis by analysis" when attempting to make a seemingly simple decision but am confronted with an unexpected plethora of choices.

In the article Gordon presents research from a number of different sources that sheds an interesting light on decision making.

Creating success or creating successful people

2011-03-03T06:53:00.000-08:00

The Harvard Business Review recently posted this article by Heidi Grant Halvorson addressing the question of why some people achieve their goals and why some people do not. Are successful people born or are there things someone can do to become successful based on these actions?

Overall its an insightful article worth your time and contemplation.

A compelling workspace...

2011-03-03T06:25:00.000-08:00

My title is Culture Director at my workplace -- not that i am in to titles or think they should define all that we do -- but in my particular case i do assist in helping create compelling workspaces in & around our office.

This is a daunting task at times -- particularly when you inherit a building and space that is 30+ years old. The difficult task is to take that space and turn it in to a compelling environment one project at a time on a limited budget.

I just came across this article from "The Illuminated Mind" blog on creating an excellent workspace and i agree with most of what is said here. If i could pull it off for all our spaces i would be very pleased & i think my coworkers would be as well.

What's your passion?

2011-02-28T13:12:00.000-08:00

Is this a helpful question for someone trying to discern what they should do with the rest of their life? Author Daniel Pink discusses this topic in a profound article in The Telegraph online.

If you have ever been asked this question or maybe you ask yourself this question -- trying to determine your best path forward -- then i highly recommend this article.

Pink states that maybe the better question is: "What do you do in your free time?"

Brainstorm like Disney...

2011-02-23T08:15:00.000-08:00

The 99% website posted this article about brainstorming & making ideas happen. It is a concise but profound piece on how to create ideas and then make them a reality in a practical and efficient process.

Nature vs Nurture...

2011-02-23T08:03:00.000-08:00

How much impact does genetics have on how a child turns out?
How much impact does parenting have on the development of a child?
How much impact does the child's environment matter in who they become?

Jonah Lehrer discusses all these questions in this Wall Street Journal article. Its a very compelling piece.

Distractions can lead to better thinking...

2011-02-23T07:57:00.000-08:00

This article from the Wall Street Journal by Jonah Lehrer explores the notion that being distracted while thinking about something specific can actually lead to more/better idea creation.

So often we try to force ourselves to really "focus" and generate a solution to a problem -- when in reality it may be more efficient to daydream or allow our minds to wander.

Use the Treadmill for training more effectively

2011-02-16T12:26:00.000-08:00

Over the past 2.5 years i have been actively involved in Triathlons. I got bored of footraces and the training that goes with them and decided to give triathlons a try. I loved it. Not just race day but the training too. From day one i have never looked back. I still compete in a footrace from time to time but only as something to stay in shape between training season.

I became a triathlon addict. I began reading, studying and watching anything i could find on triathlons and triathlon training. I even created a 3-ring binder full of triathlon articles. That leads me to this post. Instead of printing everything out i will now just include enlightening triathlon/racing/training articles here as well.

I found this article on Active.com about using the treadmill more effectively in the "run" portion of training. I will take insight on how to make the "dreadmill" more pleasurable.

behind the scenes (literally) of Pixar Studios

2011-02-16T11:32:00.001-08:00

I recently came across this video from The NewYork Times. It is a behind the scenes look at Pixar Studios in San Francisco. Its a mixture of "how they do that" and a basic look at their offices & studios. Very compelling stuff.

Truthiness...does it sell?

2011-02-04T11:16:00.000-08:00

And the compelling thought-provoking pieces from Brene' Brown just keeping coming. From her TED talk - to her blog - to her website i just keep reading very profound "stuff." I invite you to discover it too.

Here is an article she wrote some time ago -- but its 'truth' is timeless. Enjoy.

Voice lessons from Dixie Chicks...

2011-02-04T11:03:00.000-08:00

I have been on quite the journey of self-discovery lately. In doing so i have come across a researcher named Brene' Brown that has numerous articles, talks, & books that have me thoroughly intrigued.

Just today i read this piece on women having a voice of authenticity.
(note: this article was not necessarily for me and my journey -- as i am not a female -- however i did find truth in it and felt it was worth sharing with anyone)

Following well...

2011-02-04T07:22:00.000-08:00

So many books, blogs, podcasts, conferences exist to discuss and promote "leadership" but there are so few on "followership." With that in mind here is a brief but to the point list of 7 tips from The Catalyst blog on following well.

Please...no pleasing

2011-02-04T06:05:00.000-08:00

An excellent but brief reminder by Seth Godin for anyone doing work that matters.

Carb loading & other myths

2011-01-31T17:54:00.000-08:00

I just came across this article from Bicycling Magazine regarding common assumptions like "carb loading" and other old, counterproductive habits when it comes to eating. This article in particular is beneficial for those that train for races or ride regularly.

Solid info that will change the way you eat.

"The Price of Invulnerability"

2011-01-26T17:43:00.000-08:00

I cannot overstate the profound impact of this video on the benefit of being vulnerable. This is compelling & life-change information for anyone. Here is the synopsis of the TED talk by Dr. Brene' Brown:

"In our anxious world, we often protect ourselves by closing off parts of our lives that leave us feeling most vulnerable. Yet invulnerability has a price. When we knowingly or unknowingly numb ourselves to what we sense threatens us, we sacrifice an essential tool for navigating uncertain times -- joy."

This talk will explore how and why fear and collective scarcity has profoundly dangerous consequences on how we live, love, parent, work and engage in relationships -- and how simple acts can restore our sense of purpose and meaning.

MLK, Jr -- a lion man

2011-01-18T17:04:00.000-08:00

I found this rather short but robust entry on the Fatherless Generations blog honoring Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. A nice piece to remind us of the monumental difference-maker he truly was.

As a bonus this entry also includes a link to his famous "I have a dream..." speech. Its an absolute must for those that have never listened to it before.

What makes Chick-Fil-A tick...

2011-01-13T17:30:00.000-08:00

If you enjoy Chick-Fil-A...and i am guessing you do...this article by Success Magazine will help you understand why. I have written about this before -- Chick-Fil-A creates a meaningful difference between itself and any competition that is out there. Some of there amazing business practices & ideas are discussed here.

Eat more chicken! Chick-Fil-A that is.

What's up with up...

2011-01-13T10:37:00.000-08:00

NewScientist posted this article today titled "Elevate yourself to become more virtious." I found this piece to be very compelling. The statitistics alone on how people's actions/reactions differed based on their relation to being "above" or "below" are very intriguing.

While reading this i began to consider our preconceived notions of Heaven always being above and Hell always being below and had to wonder if this doesn't reflect on that in someway.

Keeping the Peace with an Introvert...

2011-01-09T11:01:00.000-08:00

The Atlantic recently published this article titled "Caring for Your Introvert." If you are even slightly interested in personality profiles this is a very solid read. And if you are Introvert or someone that spends any time with one or 10 its a must read.

As an ISTJ i wish everyone would read the article.

What's in a name...

2011-01-06T08:49:00.001-08:00

If you have ever had to "brainstorm" about coming up with a name or idea for something new this article will resonate with you. Even if you're not in the branding business this is an enlightening piece from Fast Company.

Improve your meetings...

2011-01-04T08:26:00.000-08:00

If you are a person that leads meetings or attends a lot of meetings you must see this blog post by Seth Godin. He is the author of many influential books and an all-around business/leadership guru. I recommend following his blog and picking up a few books of his as well. Most recently i have enjoyed The Dip and Linchpin.

Compelling video & statistics

2010-12-27T17:23:00.001-08:00

If you have any interest in world statistics regarding average life span & average income watch this 4 minute video by the BBC regarding both. It covers the hows & whys of the past 200 years.

Additionally, the video is highly compelling because of the video graphics & technology used. If for no other reason than just the use of technology check out this video.

These 4 minutes are both enjoyable & easy to understand.

Compelling interviews with influential people

2010-12-26T12:42:00.001-08:00

Over the past 2 days i have had the fortunate opportunity to do a lot of reading -- some of it random and some of it purposeful. Because i am visiting family out of town i happened upon a magazine i would not have otherwise picked up. It was a Newsweek special edition titled "The Interview Issue" dated December 27, 2010/January 3, 2011.

I highly recommend picking up a copy or perusing it online. You can hear from the standard popular interviewees like Bill Gates & Richard Branson, or learn something from other interesting figures you don't regularly hear from like Jane Lynch (Glee), Will.I.Am, or the the Coen Brothers. And just as compelling are interviews with people making a difference in the world from around the world or even a few that you may not expect to hear from like the guy in the Old Spice ads or the "other" guy from Facebook.

Regardless you will be entertained & enlightened. Its worth your time & you won't regret it.

Finding answers on the Internet...besides Google

2010-12-24T12:20:00.000-08:00

If you are anything like me when you need to "search" for something on the Internet you just default to Google. In fact, it has become the only tool that i use.

I am happy to report that today i came across this article at LifeHacker.com and it provided 10 new options to use and a variety of reasons why to choose them. I am actually looking forward to trying some of these new options.

I have nothing against Google, i just think there are more effecient ways to retrieve info via the internet...especially when a question or need is very specific. A few of these options actually gather feedback from specific groups of people that would have first-hand experience & input with the answer you are seeking.

Brainstorming about brainstorming...

2010-12-20T20:35:00.000-08:00

This article points out some good tips on having the most effective meetings in order to generate ideas. Good insights and practical info.

How color affects our purchases...

2010-12-15T19:28:00.000-08:00

I just came across this very compelling piece by KISSmetrics regarding color and its affect on consumer buying habits. This article also discusses how website design & language can impact a person's decision to buy or walk away.

It is very profound whether you are the consumer or the seller/marketer. Its always advantageous to know what influences you and what others think influences you...especially when it comes to spending & buying.

More Brain Food...

2010-12-14T10:41:00.000-08:00

Here is a profound article from the99% on the power of listening titled "Why Leaders Should Take a Break from Talking." It is truly a great reminder for anyone hoping to be an effecient & effective leader or manager or human. I hope i can live up to this challenge.

Brain Food...

2010-12-14T09:04:00.001-08:00

Here is an insightful article by the Drucker exchange challenging people to decide if they are truly "burnt out" or just "bored." Good stuff.

Cardinal Run Park...

2010-10-24T18:03:00.000-07:00

Today, the family and i decided to continue to capitalize on the amazing Fall weather we've been having here in Lexington. So we picked a park we had not been to in a long time -- and we were well rewarded.

Cardinal Run Park is located off of Parker's Mill Rd making it a bit out of the way from the normal Lexington traffic which is both good and bad. Good because the crowds are small - making it very peaceful and leaving the trails wide open for all 4 of us. Bad in that it does not get the respect and visitors that it deserves.

If you are looking for a new outdoor location to explore I highly recommend checking out the trails here. They are tree-lined and well paved. And for this time of year the fall foilage makes it extremely picture-esque.

(Unfortunately i left my phone in the car and got no photos -- the best that i could do is this rendering of the park layout)

A New Discovery...the other Gatlinburg

2010-10-11T17:56:00.000-07:00

This past weekend my family decided to take our Fall Break trip to the Gatlinburg Area. This is certainly not uncommon to us and i have enjoyed this area of Tennessee in the Fall of the year for most of my 35 years.

However, i am sad to admit that for the first time in a long time i truly took advantage of the "outdoors" side of this area. Usually i/we fall prey to the usual tourist traps of shops, restaurants, entertainment centers etc. There have been trips in the past where we would make the trip to Clingman's Dome or a pleasant drive through Cades Cove, but never one where we did a little homework and pushed ourselves to explore off the easy/popular outdoor trips.
This time we did so and we were so truly grateful for the experiences we had. My wife Emily found a great/simple website that offers both short hikes & day hikes. It even includes a map of the area with all of the trails listed (this was very helpful).
The specific area we chose to explore was the Roaring Fork Motor Trail (go to stoplight #8 in Gatlinburg and turn left). From there we first chose the Rainbow Falls trail & it was incredibly rewarding. Most of the hike leads uphill along the creek flowing through the rocks and the ferns. This trail was very picturesque and i can only imagine it has been captured and used as screen savers or nature calendars.
For lunch we did a picnic along the creek after the first hike and then headed on to the our next hike to Grotto Falls. This trail was not near as picturesque but still very rewarding as the hike leads to a waterfall where one can actually walk behind the falls. Very cool.
All this to say...the next time you visit the Gatlinburg Area (and you know there will be a next time) i challenge you to avoid the easy tourist traps and go off road. This area has such an excellent variety of outdoor recreation and trails that it should be known for but unfortunately all the other "stuff" often gets in the way.

So when you visit...take the road less traveled and create a better story. Get outdoors in Gatlinburg, TN.

Lift a Rock Find a...

2010-09-27T18:32:00.000-07:00

Of all the books i have the privilege and pleasure of reading to my children one of my favorites is "Lift a Rock...". One of the reasons is that it is a "lift the flap book" which both of my kids absolutely adore. Its always exciting to them to lift the flap and see what's underneath -- regardless if they have already read that particular book many times before. There is something about the discovery that is appealing to them even if the surprise is gone.

There is something about discovery that is appealing to me too. And like my kids it can be both a first time experience or just a re-discovery of something fantastic from the past. And in regards to that discovery i love to share that new found information/treasure with others. I am what Malcolm Gladwell calls a "maven" in his excellent book "Tipping Point." (this is a must read in my humble opinion)

So, with that said, i am now shoving off in a new and more consistent direction with my blog. I will be posting from time to time about a "new" discovery i have made and will use this space to share it with anyone that cares to read about it.

With that said: "Lift a rock and find...Ben Rector." Four times a year i receive a package in the mail from a company that sends me a sampling of new books & cd's to try out. Often the CD's are mix of little to no interest for me. In fact i often pass them on to others without even trying them out. This one time in particular i passed off Ben Rector's CD "Into the Morning" to my wife unopened.
The next time i was in her car i heard this very compelling music coming from the CD player. When i inquired about who it was the answer came: "Ben Rector...its one of those CD's you gave me." I immediately wanted the CD back for myself. If you are looking for some new fresh music you need to give this guy a try. Seriously, he is money. Check him out for yourself. You will be glad you did. I would attempt to describe his "sound" somehow but it would not do it justice and would only lead you to compare him to someone else in your mind. Ben Rector stands alone.

After you give it a listen...let me know what you think.
*Check out "Into the Morning" & try "Loving You Is Easy"/ "The Beat"/ "When a Heart Breaks"*
**I did not get paid for this advertisement but i would happily take any money sent my way.**

Awareness Test...

2010-06-24T10:33:00.000-07:00

First, watch this video. Just follow the directions from the narrarator.

So, did you see the "moonwalking bear" the first time. I was clueless -- i did not see it and could not believe i had missed it. And that is the point of the video. We see what we are looking for...or another way to say it is that we see what we want to see.

Which brings me to the question: What are you looking for? Who are you looking for?
Do you only have eyes for the things you want to see or are you aware of all that is around you?

What about the things that desperately need to be seen but are missed not just by you but by many others. And instead of "things" insert "people." Are there people out "there" that need someone to notice them because they are hurting?

Now when i go back and watch the "Moonwalking Bear" video i can't NOT see the bear. It is impossible. So, if you start looking for these people & things -- you will start to see them. There is no way that you won't see them.

Make yourself aware. Make yourself mindful.

Quotes 'R Us...

2010-06-07T11:09:00.000-07:00

You fill in the blank

If you are ever in need of a good quote this website that my wife, Emily, found and tipped me off to will help -- World of Inspiration. It is very simple and very easy to use. You just go there and then select a subject you are interested in on the right side. The site then pulls up many quotes along that topic.

I'm big on quotes so this site is something i like to use frequently. Plus, when you are looking for just the right thing to say -- why not enlist the help of someone that has probably already said it. Enjoy.

Awesome things...

2010-06-04T06:27:00.000-07:00

Recently my wife Emily stumbled upon this website titled "1000 Awesome Things" based on the book called "The Book of Awesome." I am happy to recommend & endorse this site/book because of their efforts to impact culture in a positive way. The content can be kind of cliche and similar to a lot of "list" type things out there -- but you know what it brings me joy. And because of that i enjoy hitting the website from time to time just to be reminded of "awesome" stuff.

Its always a good thing to be reminded of things that bring us joy. I mean who doesn't want a pick-me-up when you need it. Check it out -- you'll be glad you did and better off for it too.

I give this website & book my...

LOST finale: Eastern vs Western mindset

2010-05-31T06:48:00.000-07:00

Disclaimer: This post will not be about the details of the show but more about why i think people mostly disliked it in the end. You do not need to know a single character or plot line to read on.

Even if you can't stand the show LOST you could not avoid hearing about how it ended. I am one that enjoyed the show (however i did have some moments of almost letting go) and in fact enjoyed the finale as well. From what i heard around the water-cooler and read in other places i am in the very small minority.

Reasons that i heard routinely for viewer's dislike of the ending was that too many loose ends were never tied up. Too many plot lines and "issues" were never solved. The writers took the easy way out to the end. And the list could go on...but mainly the dislike coming from loyal fanatics of the show for 6 years was that it left too many questions unanswered or that the few answers given were cop-outs (taking the easy way to resolve the end).

This line of thinking and cause of frustration is a Western mindset. Give me the facts dang it! Answer all the questions! Make the plot lines make sense! Wrap this thing up in a nice tight package so i can rest easy!

The show was difficult to follow. It was so called "intelligent" TV. It made you think and ask questions. And that was a major reason that i liked it. This show impacted our culture in ways that few television shows have ever done. It caused viewers to actually pay attention in commercials, scour the internet for clues, and dig through pages & pages of blogs, chat rooms, & devoted websites to research other fans theories and ideas about what was actually happening on the show.

All of this commotion, promotion & marketing of the show played right into the hands of the Western mindset. Raise questions -- then find answers. We were taught from the very beginning of our time in school to use the scientific method to find answers to our questions. And this show pushed viewers to do just the same (again, like no other show before it).

This "bait" was dangled in front of the viewer's noses for almost 6 full years. And it worked. The "bait" created a buzz so big that no less than 2 other shows in a similar genre were launched while LOST was still being aired. The "bait" was so effective that for a few seasons a rerun of the previous episode was aired an hour before the new episode in a "pop-up video" kind of way.

The problem is that in the end (the finale -- which lasted 2.5 hours with an additional 2 hour recap on before it -- again think of any other show that had this type of air-time devoted to it) the bait was yanked away. Many questions were left unanswered. Many plot lines were not even revisited. The scientific method proved useless on solving the show.

How dare the writers do this?! After all those hours spent wringing hands, searching for clues, computing data, and theorizing for answers. This is all we get? Western mindset defeated...by an Eastern solution.

We don't have to have all the answers/solutions. In fact, what if we answer questions by raising more questions. What if the end is more about the bigger story...the bigger narrative being played out? What if the show was really all about the characters and their development? What if the purpose and meaning of the show was to demonstrate the cause & effect relationship of each person's decisions and how it impacted their life?

I LOVED the ending of the LOST. There is no way that the writers could answer all the questions and close all the gaps that were brought up in the last 6 years. And i believe the writers never had any intention of doing so from the beginning. The purpose of LOST was about character development & the story of the people.

We can learn a lot from this ending. Let go of the scientific method from time to time. Embrace character development. Embrace the bigger story at play. Embrace your story and where you are in it. Engage in how the decision you make will impact your life and the life of those around you.

In the end LOST was not lost. In fact the characters were found. If by no one else, they at least discovered themselves. And to me that is the most important part of the show.

More "why" than "what"...

2010-05-22T10:29:00.000-07:00

Recently i have been posting entries regarding "Meaningful Distinction." See the first entry where i explain what it is and why it is relevant with examples from our culture. You can see the second if you just want another very popular example from our culture.

Well yesterday a good friend & co-worker, Derrick Purvis, posted a video on his blog from the TED talk series. As i watched that talk i realized that it was directly dealing with & discussing "meaningful distinction." In fact i would say this guy was giving the "biology" behind how to create it.

Moreover, i just started a section on the sidebar of my blog called "Slice of Culture" where i will frequently be posting something in that section that gives good insight into today's culture. It just so happens my first post was about the TED (Technology, Entertainment, Design) talks: Ideas Worth Spreading. So it appears Derrick posted a video that was perfect for 2 things i have recently been spending a lot of time on.

Be sure and check out this video. It is very compelling & well worth your time whether you care about "meaningful distinction" or my interest in the TED talk series. It is a video that has relevance to your life no matter what you do (in my humble opinion).

Meaningful Distinction -- Part 2 "Chick-Fil-A

2010-05-18T14:09:00.000-07:00

(Seriously - who doesn't love Chick-Fil-A?!)

Recently, i made a post regarding "Meaningful Distinction" -- what it is and its relevance to us. After writing that piece i really began to see things that just jumped out at me as great examples of "Meaningful Distinction" in our culture.

Chick-fil-a is one of those. When it comes to so-called "fast food" chains Chick-fil-a has definitely created separation from the other main chains. In fact, i dont even think of CFA as a typical fast food restaurant. Yes they are fast and convenient but they are certainly a step above the others. CFA has created a meaningful distinction between themselves and their competition.

If you have eaten at CFA i want you to pause for a moment and think about how your experience there is different from other "typical" fast food joints. Think about how the restaurant looks inside - how it operates - how the employees act - how you are treated - how the food tastes & looks - etc.

Some things you might have thought of:
How it looks -- the restaurant is always clean...from the restrooms to the top of the garbage cans to the floors to the tables to the condiment stations. It is always bright and sterile looking (white is an overwhelming choice of color). There are fresh flowers on the tables in some stores.

How it operates -- effecient is the keyword here. The lines always move fast and the order is always correct. Smooth operation.

How the employees act -- courteous. You will notice they refer to "customers" as "guests." The name change indicates that you are not viewed as a client or a source of money but as a guest. The emphasis is on hospitality not on getting you to empty your wallet. You will also notice that if you say "thank you" the response back is "my pleasure." Again, the emphasis is on being glad & proud to serve the guests. If time allows a host will be around to offer a refill and check on your meal. What other fast food chain offers that?

How the food tastes/looks -- they dont just show great looking food in commercials. They actually have it like that in the store as well. They put great effort in providing the same looking food on your tray as what you see on TV or in an add.

Bonus -- who gives away more food than Chick-fil-a. I can't recall how many times my friends and i have made trips to a local CFA store for free breakfast items.

My point is this: Chick-fil-a has made great efforts to not just be another fast food chain. They want to be your only convenience restaurant. And they have done that by creating meaningful distinction. They didn't invent the chicken -- just the chicken sandwich (and the best customer service in the business). The last part of the slogan was obviously added by me.

Encouragement works -- both ways...

2010-05-12T07:02:00.000-07:00

(The Finish Line)

Recently i finished an Olympic Distance Triathlon in Knoxville, TN. It was a great experience all around. The race is part of a series of races put on by Rev3 and they did a fantastic job. I was very impressed by their emphasis on detail and on making it a family event (which was very important considering race day was Mother's Day). There just so happened to be 55 professional triathletes in this race as well as guest celebrity racer Tara Costa from Season 8 of "The Biggest Loser."

There are many things i love about races -- whether they are strictly foot races or triathlons -- from the training, to the event itself, to the free s.w.a.g., to the adrenaline rush as you get closer to the finish line, to the sense of accomplishment when its all over. However, there was one thing about this race that really made an impact on me and that was the encouragement.

By encouragement i mean the cheering on of the racers by the spectators & volunteers. Our race number bibs actually had our names on them in addition to our numbers. So not only did those on the sides of the streets cheer for us in general but they were able to yell our names as well. I was surprised by the difference it made. It made me feel singled out in a good way as in: "hey, that person is cheering for me." Which was a big deal considering there were 700 racers in this event.

But not only did those on the sidelines get in on the verbal encouragement, racers were encouraging each other too. If you saw someone struggling or not feeling good it was not uncommon to hear another racer give words of encouragement. And one of the more touching moments was when one of the 2 groups that were pulling/pushing a disabled person through the mile swim, 26 mile bike ride, and 6 mile run passed we as racers would cheer and applaud for them. These were special moments indeed.

All that said, the one thing that really left an impact on me was the actual effect my encouragement of others had on me. Whether i verbally supported another racer or just thanked a person handing me water as i ran by -- i usually got a boost of energy as i encouraged them.

At times there would be large crowds of people in one area cheering -- even just a simple nonverbal display of appreciation from me to them via a head nod, slapping high five, or a simple thumbs up gave me a lift. It was then when i realized that encouragement works both ways.

Who is encouraging to you? Who are you encouraging?
Are you being generous & kind with your words?
It really does matter because it really does have an impact!

Meaningful Distinction...

2010-05-07T06:44:00.000-07:00

(This picture hangs in my office -- its from IKEA)

I like this picture for a couple of reasons but the one that really drew my eye is the way the yellow taxi cabs stand out among the black & white in the rest of the picture. It sets them a part and makes them easily distinguishable in a very crowded and busy photo. It is the polar opposite of the "Where's Waldo" photo books (which i still like) and on a totally separate playing field from the "Magic Eye" photo books that made you have vertigo just to see the hidden picture (which i still like as well bc of the challenge & intrigue).

Recently i started reading a book called "Chief Culture Officer" by Grant McCracken (for a link see the section "Pages I'm Currently Turning") and i highly recommend it. In one section he talks about how Nike started distinguishing themselves from their competition through advertisements on TV. One in particular was the Nike "Tag" commercial where complete strangers in a big city played tag making a routine life more "playful and less predictable." This type of ad showed transcendence from being merely about "sports performance" or "shoes" and took us to an entirely new place in our minds and emotions. This was different, this was not just an ordinary advertising campaign.

Nike created "meaningful distinction" -- a term coined by Theodore Levitt of Harvard Business School. Of course Nike is not the only company to do this successfully, i am sure you can stop and think of a few more "giants" that have done this well.

I say all of that to get to my question: "Are you creating meaningful distinction with your life?" Distinction from what or for what you might ask? Good return question.

And i would follow up with another question: "What do you want to be meaningfully distinguished from?" Is it from another company/organization you compete against? Is it from co-workers and their performance levels/abilities? Is it from other guys/girls out there on the dating scene?

Or is it just with the overall value of your life and your efforts with it? Does your life stand out -- in a good way? Not for the sake of ego and self-promotion but for the sake of making a positive impact.

Are you creating meaningful distinction? Its a question worth asking...but more importantly its a question worth answering.

(This picture hangs in the office of Mike Vandermark -- yet another great example of meaningful distinction)

City Lights...

2010-04-30T07:37:00.000-07:00

(View of Syndey & the Harbour Bridge @ Night)

My wife recently added a new ring tone that is for calls & texts so needless to say i hear this song ALOT. Its "Life Light Up" by Christy Nockels. The line that i hear over and over is the first line of the chorus: "Let my life light up like the city lights...".

I heard this ring tone probably 20 times before i really paid attention to the lyrics (and how often does that happen in other places too). Then it dawned on me that this song just so happened to line up with what i had been studying on Thursday's at lunch with my good friends Derrick & Chris. We were walking through Proverbs together and one of the verses that really resonated with me and became a repeating chorus in my head was from Prov. 13:9 -- "The lives of good people are brightly lit streets; the lives of the wicked are dark alleys."

For me illustrations and visual learning is a great way for something to sink into my head and soul. And this verse jumped off the page because i could clearly see a beautiful city lit up at night (see picture above) and i could also easily imagine a dark alley that would fit the description of wicked.

The take-away for me was the question: "So which one describes your life? Which one is a good picture for how i am living? What am i actually illuminating with my life, words, thoughts, actions?"

I challenge you to imagine a brightly lit city -- and then imagine a dark alley. Which one more accurately represents your life? Which one would you want people to associate with thoughts of you? Which one are you most like right now?

If its not the answer you really want and hope for -- do something about it. Now.

You have stayed here long enough...get moving.

2010-04-21T13:25:00.000-07:00

(A pic from my hike up to 7K ft elevation in the Mission Mtns of Montana)

Recently i have been studying Deuteronomy with 2 great friends who also happen to be 2 great teammates, Derrick Purvis & Chris Hahn. In the first chapter we read a passage where God speaks to Moses and says: "You've stayed long enough at this mountain. On your way now. Get moving." After telling him where to go God goes on to say: "I've given you this land. Now go in and take it."

That passage really jumped out to me and caused me to ask myself a couple of very important and challenging questions.

1) Will i be able to discern when i need to move on to another mountain? And for me i don't mean the "mountain" necessarily has to be a physical move of location -- it could just be a new challenge in my life or something new i need to be working on.

2) Will i have the courage and confidence to move to the next mountain? So often it is much easier to just stay in places of comfort. Admittedly, i am right now in a place of comfort. Now believe me i have challenges in my job and in my life -- but overall i feel pretty comfortable. But were a change asked or required of me how would i approach it?

This story of Moses and all of Israel moving from place to place in the desert for 40 some years and NOT entering into the "promised land" that God had given them makes it very easy to critique them and even laugh at how silly they were. I mean seriously, if you read about their exploits and the foolish things they did and said it can be comical. They would be literally and metaphorically on the mountaintop one day and down in the valley (again physically & metaphorically) the next.

But if i stop for only a moment and examine my own life i find that i am just like them. However, i am using these 2 questions that came quickly to me to alter that habitual behavior. God often gives us an invitation -- but its also usually followed closely behind with a challenge. We love the invitation but we often don't embrace the challenge.

So as i challenge myself to be open to not just the invitation but also the challenge -- i lay the same dare out to you.

A happy heart is good medicine...

2010-04-17T12:12:00.000-07:00

(My boy Jackson - he makes my heart happy)

I am currently in Rockford, IL visiting some great friends, TD & Jen Oakes and their kids, with my wife Emily and our friend Taryn.

From the moment we got in the car to head this way on a 7-8 hour drive we have been laughing. And then last night after we arrived the laughing only intensified. And it was capped off by us watching comedian Brian Regan at the Improv. Seriously, if you have not checked out his stuff it is an absolute MUST! I had seen a bit or two of his but last night we watched for an hour.

When we finally ran out of "bits" to watch we had sore stomachs and cheeks from laughing so much. It is safe to say we all had laughed until we cried. Part of the joy was just being together with friends -- but there is no doubt that Regan is one of the funniest comedians alive today.

But as we were sitting there (more like rolling around doubled over) it occurred to me that the old Proverb "a happy heart is good medicine and a cheerful mind works healing..." is completely true! If there was a way to bottle up laughter and sell it this invention would make more money (and actually do more good) than all the other anti-depressants combined. And i don't doubt for a second that this laughter would cure many things beyond just depression.

(I recommend that you read this article on the actual effects of laughter on the brain and the body. It will give you some great insights into the importance of it and why the Proverb about a happy heart being good medicine is scientifically true.)

The effects of laughter and joy on a person(s) can NOT be overstated or overvalued. It can really heal and transform. Where can you find opportunities to add more laughter and joy to your life? Think about the things that put a smile on your face and work as natural stimulants -- how can you find more time to work these things into your daily routine?

I challenge you to figure this out and actually do it. Your life depends on it.

A good leader or a good follower - which is more important?

2010-04-11T10:22:00.000-07:00

Recently Ella, my almost 4 year old daughter, and i visited our neighborhood duck pond. Its a place that we like to frequent for some fantastic father & daughter time. We did our usual of walking to different areas of the pond to feed the ducks & geese, our favorite being the large gazebo that juts out into the water.

After we had overfed the birds with old hot-dog buns Ella decided that we should take a walk on a paved trail leading away from the pond (and our car). It was a beautiful day so i was all for it. This trail eventually ended at the entrance of a neighborhood. Ella again decided that we should explore the neighborhood.

At this point i began to weigh our options (classic ISTJ behavior). How long had we been gone? How far were we going to get from the car? Would i have to eventually carry her all the way back? Etc. So i began to formulate in my head the best thing(s) to say to lure her back toward the direction we came (using great logic of course - again ISTJ). And then (cue dramatic music) i decided to just let her lead. Where ever she wants to go that's where we'll go! I am just going to follow. No questions asked. Just follow the cute curly headed girl on an adventure.

This is when our time together really began to get rich and memorable. I am not kidding. It was so incredibly fun to simply let her lead and go where she wanted to go because of her whims and 4 year old logic. Our adventure was fantastic. (i would love to take the time to describe to you how we moved about the sidewalks and streets and yards but it would take too many keystrokes to explain it all - just trust me)

As we were getting back to the car (yes we made it back) it struck me that in our society we are ALL about leaders & leadership. Google it, check out Joseph-Beth bookstore, search for a conference on it, the topic is everywhere. Its worshipped and revered. Heck i even have a Master's Degree in it (i have the diploma to prove it). But we don't spend any time or ambition on followers & followership (the blog editor is indicating i just invented this word). But we should.

In fact, a couple of years back Brandon Schaefer, a co-worker of mine at Southland and oddly enough now has the title of Follow Team Minister, and i began exploring the idea of hosting a "Followers" Conference. What would that look like? What we would challenge people with? Who would speak at it? Would anyone come to it?

The truth of the matter is most of us are followers most of the time. But are we any good at it?! Do we read about it, do we go to conferences on it, do we study it, do we focus on it, do we work on being better at it, do we have ambition to become it? Something certainly worth pondering.

A good leader or a good follower - which is more important? You tell me.

Have U Thanked a Volunteer Lately? No really...

2010-04-07T10:04:00.000-07:00

I am constantly amazed when i think about the number of volunteers that put in time, effort and energy around Southland. It particularly struck me this past weekend as i walked around and noticed how many volunteers were serving all over the church so that "guests" would have an excellent and memorable experience here for Easter.

There were volunteers doing the following things (and these are just the ones that i saw): helping with our Production Team, serving in the Children's Ministry areas, counting the offering, preparing and serving communion, greeting guests, parking cars, praying with people to make decisions, singing on stage, playing in the band, serving food & drinks in the Cafe, teaching classes, answering questions about the church, helping guests find a seat, offering their expertise as a medical volunteer. And again these are just the things that i saw which does not include our mentoring program, the backpack food program, the medical clinics, homeless outreach, etc. Wow, how amazing!

These volunteers are people that have a heart to give back and they do so not for recognition but because they feel a purpose in it. It comes natural for many of them. And the ones that venture out cautiously almost always come back saying it was well worth it.

Volunteerism is certainly an integral part of our culture here at Southland and i am so thankful and proud of that fact. Without these wonderful volunteers we would not be the same. It would be impossible to pull of the weekend services or the outreach that we are able to do because of them.

So take some time and give a heart-felt and genuine "Thank You" to a volunteer. And be specific -- tell them why you appreciate them. Let them know that you notice and appreciate what they do. It will be well worth it to you and them.

The difference between a Cynic & a Skeptic...

2010-04-01T11:14:00.000-07:00

Recently i had a blog post regarding Cynicism and the damage it can do to your leadership abilities and frankly just you in general. Since then i have had several people engage me in conversation regarding cynicism and the most common topic has been the difference between cynicism and skepticism (which i too have wrestled with).

Ironically, just yesterday Derrick Purvis, our Communications Director, sent me a link to an article discussing this very topic. I want to share it here with you. I hope that you find it helpful. I know that i did.

Leaders aren't cynical...

2010-03-26T14:00:00.000-07:00

cyn-i-cism: an attitude of scornful or jaded negativity, especially a general distrust of the integrity or professed motives of others

I just ran across this short but profound blog entry by one of my favorite authors, Donald Miller. In it he talks about how cynicism can hold you back in your leadership. But i would add that cynicism doesn't just hold back your leadership capabilities -- it has the potential to hold back your entire life.

If you are a cynical person (and i have struggled with this myself) i challenge you to kick the habit. Your life will be better because of it. Your story will be better because of it.

(See how a Donald Miller book literally changed my life...and my story)

U of Notre Dame has culture...

2010-03-25T08:48:00.001-07:00

Recently my friend/co-worker Derrick and i took a trip to South Bend, IN for a conference. While there we explored the ND campus on our bikes. Beforehand i was familiar with the rich tradition and reputation of ND including their academics, storied football program, and famous alumni. However, i was not familiar with the campus with the exception of a few famous landmarks:

the Gold Dome "Touch Down Jesus" which overlooks the Football Stadium
and a few others.

However, once i began to take a look around i was amazed by the campus. It was immaculate (pardon the Catholic pun). They have done an excellent job at establishing an intentional culture. From the buildings, to the landscapes, to the signage, to the athletic facilities, to the monuments, to the tradition. This place oozes with culture. I had only been on campus a few minutes and thought to myself: "If i had gone to school here i would be filled with pride."

The idea i appreciated most was how it must have been done with such intentionality. The trees, sidewalks, benches, lakes, buildings, lamposts, fountains, etc. all seem to have a purpose. It appears to me as the outsider that nothing was left to random chance. So even if it was accidental it is impressive enough to appear purposeful.

One of my favorite spots on the campus (that i was able to discover) was the Lady of Lourdes Grotto. What made it even more compelling and captivating was that we arrived there just before dawn and literally saw it lit by candlelight. It was a stop and "take it in" moment.

So, if you ever get the chance -- stop by the University of Notre Dame and take in the sites, sounds, and culture of the campus. You will be glad you did.

Good people aren't hard to find...

2010-03-20T07:34:00.000-07:00

...if you know where to look. Recently i found some good people and they are at Granger Community Church in South Bend, IN. I checked out their website months ago and was consistently drawn back to see what they were up to. Then i started checking out their staff blogs and was compelled to pay closer attention.

At that point i found Mark Waltz, Pastor of Connections, who has a very similar position to mine here at Southland. Not long after that i discovered that they were having a one-day seminar that covered Culture & Communications so both Derrick Purvis, our Communications Director, and i decided we should go check them out in person.

My assumptions were correct -- there are some great people at GCC. Their staff & volunteers were very kind, competent and compelling. Most of my time was spent with Mark and he is exceptional at what he does. I was inspired and challenged with what he shared.

But of everything i have learned about GCC over the past few months the thing i admire most is the consistent encouragement and support they show each other. Whether it is through a blog, on Twitter & Facebook, or in person they exude a geniune care and respect for one another that is truly admirable. I appreciate that.

Malcolm Gladwell -- a must read...

2010-03-18T19:33:00.000-07:00

Only twice have I read more than 2 books by the same author. I completed 3 of Donald Miller's books which i recommend highly and more recently i completed a third book by Malcolm Gladwell and then immediately started a 4th book by him.

I do consider myself an avid reader but do have a tendency to bounce around. However, these 2 authors have captivated my attention and intrigue more than any other. They write in different genres so i dont really compare the two. Gladwell deals with scientific sociology and does so by examining case study on top of case study. His writing is extremely compelling and always leads towards a conclusion that changes the way i think or act.

Of the 3 i have read: Tipping Point, Blink, & Outliers the second on this list impacted me the most. Blink truly has changed the way i make decisions. In fact it has helped me in my decision making by convincing me to stick with my gut/blink reaction more than in the past -- which is saying something for a very analytical & methodical person like myself.

I look forward to completing his latest: What the Dog Saw. I'll let you know how it turns out. In the meantime grab your own copy of a Gladwell book. You will be "Glad" that you did.